This question came from one of my frequent blog readers.
Hi G,
There is this boy that I like and he has everything I am looking for in a boy. He is cute and funny and the same religion as me. But I just found out that he has a girlfriend, what do I do?
-annonymous
Hi annonymous, my advice to you would be to continue to be friends with him. I know what it is like to have this happen to you. This happened to me a long time ago and I was heartbroken over it. Basically, what I did was continue to help him with things he needed help with. After a while, you will begin to accept that he has a girlfriend.
Now, if he talks about her often you can act kind of deflated whenever he mentions her. For example if he is bragging about the new phone his girlfriend got this weekend you can say "OH cool" and change the subject. The right guy will come along soon, who knows maybe this guy will be the one for you!
Good luck
Gabrielle.
Hi G,
There is this boy that I like and he has everything I am looking for in a boy. He is cute and funny and the same religion as me. But I just found out that he has a girlfriend, what do I do?
-annonymous
Hi annonymous, my advice to you would be to continue to be friends with him. I know what it is like to have this happen to you. This happened to me a long time ago and I was heartbroken over it. Basically, what I did was continue to help him with things he needed help with. After a while, you will begin to accept that he has a girlfriend.
Now, if he talks about her often you can act kind of deflated whenever he mentions her. For example if he is bragging about the new phone his girlfriend got this weekend you can say "OH cool" and change the subject. The right guy will come along soon, who knows maybe this guy will be the one for you!
Good luck
Gabrielle.